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Why Is My Child Still Struggling? | The Parent Teacher
Parents deserve the same tools teachers have.

Your child is bright.
So why are they still struggling?

Extra help hasn’t fixed it because the gap is still there. I’m Sabina, a teacher for 30 years who has taught thousands of children. I train parents to see where their child is stuck and explain it so it finally makes sense.

For parents of primary-aged children, in school or learning at home.

Sabina Bashir at her desk
Expert-led
30 years teaching. Home educating mum.
Evidence-informed
Child development, learning and wellbeing.
Parent-teacher training
Practical skills for teaching and supporting your child.
Whole child
Learning, confidence, behaviour and emotions.
Do you recognise this?

When a child says “I don’t know,” it can mean several different things.
Explaining it again only fixes one of them.

Mother thoughtfully supporting her son with schoolwork at home

You’ve tried everything.

You’ve explained it again, encouraged them and arranged extra help. Still no progress.

Thoughtful child considering a question in her schoolwork at home

You don’t know what’s missing.

You can’t tell whether it’s a gap, a worry or something else.

Some days they get it. Other days it’s a battle. Same work, different outcome.

Parent overwhelmed by homework

You’re worried about their confidence.

You want to protect their love of learning and need to know what will actually help.

So why does learning
feel so hard?

Your child can argue the hind legs off a donkey and give a defence lawyer a run for their money.

But put a reading book, a maths question or a piece of writing in front of them, and suddenly, it's a different story.

You know your child is capable of more. You've seen how quickly they pick things up when they're interested.

So why isn't that happening with their schoolwork?

What if your child isn't the problem?
What if it's a personality difference, or the way it's being explained?

I'm a big-picture person. I want to see the whole map before I set off.

My child finds that overwhelming. She wants one direction at a time. Take this road. Turn here.

It's the same when you help your child learn. What makes perfect sense to you can leave them more confused. You explain again. They push back. Before long, you're both frustrated.

Same destination. Different directions.

Sometimes, the explanation is where we get stuck.

Our purpose

We train parents.

I teach parents what teachers know: how to find the missing step, choose what comes next, use words children understand, and give the smallest help that moves learning forward.

Sleep, sensory needs, emotions and development also affect learning. Our specialists help parents understand those too.

Meet the specialists →
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Profile

Understand your parenting style, your child, and how you communicate when learning together.

ROSIELAF · Family Compatibility
A

Assess

Find out what your child knows, where the foundations are shaky and what to fix first.

Maths · English · 11+
R

Regulate

Stress, sleep and emotions all affect learning. Learn what helps.

Wellbeing journals · Sleep meditations
E

Educate

Build the knowledge and teaching skills to explain, adapt and guide learning.

Parent-teacher training · Curriculum resources
N

Nurture

Stay supported as you grow, through the community and the magazine.

Community · Magazine
T

Transfer

Put it into practice at home, with guidance, until you can do it without me.

GATE Training

A developing framework. Resources are added as they’re ready.

WHEN ALL SIX WORK TOGETHER

Stronger foundations

Gaps found and rebuilt.

Greater confidence

You know what to do.

Real progress

Learning gets clearer.

Happier families

Less frustration, more connection.

How to cross the bridge

One step at a time.
Start where you are.

Most parents start with step 1. It’s free, and it shows how you and your child learn together.

01

Understand yourself and your child

ROSIELAF
Illustrated ROSIELAF fox

Where do your expectations clash? Find your parenting animal, then add your child’s. It takes a few minutes. Go with your first instinct. Remember, even if your children are the same animal, their profiles will be different. 16 animals does not mean we all fit into 16 neat boxes. Every assessment you take later is tailored to your animals.

Free parent profile →
02

Find the learning gap

Academic Assessments · Maths, English & 11+

Maths, English and 11+ assessments show what your child knows and what to fix first. Add yours and your child’s animal profiles, and the advice fits how you both learn. Skip them and you get the chameleon: generic advice. Home educating? See if they’re keeping pace with their year group - and yes, they can still sit the 11+.

See assessments →
03

Talk it through

Free Clarity Call

A free 30-minute Clarity Call. Tell me what’s happening and leave knowing your next step.

Book your call →
04

Learn to teach with confidence

GATE Training™

GATE Training: four weeks, one to one. You and your child work with me together. I show you where they’re stuck as it happens, and explain it, so you can do it yourself at home.

See how GATE works →
Sabina Bashir working with a child
Why I built The Parent Teacher

30 years teaching children.
One question I couldn’t ignore.

Why is a bright child still struggling, even after tuition? I know how easily a bright child can become stuck when a small step has been missed. Parents are often left to help without ever being shown the teaching skills behind it.

The other half of the answer came in 2023, with the most challenging Year 6 class of my career. The class next door cheered whenever I walked in - LITERALLY treated me like a celebrity. My class thought they were nuts. I wanted to know why. So I built a Personality and Relationship assessment and profiled every child. By the end of the year, my challenging class loved me. That assessment became ROSIELAF and I modified it for parents and their children.

I’m a Swan parent with three children: same house, three different animals. My youngest is a swan too - she’s so easy to raise, my older two are a little more challenging (and vice versa). So we start with how you and your child work together. Then we find the gap.

“The year group tells us where a child should be. The assessment shows us where to begin.”

30years in education
Thousandsof children taught
One missionstronger children, stronger families
Read my story →

Whether your child is in school or learning at home, you are the constant.
The one who’s there all day. The one who matters most.

Sabina Bashir · Read my story →

Teaching is our foundation.
Specialists support everything around it.

I lead the academic training. Alongside me, our specialists cover sleep, sensory needs, development, confidence and family relationships, all of which affect a child’s attention, confidence and ability to learn.

Natasha Grays
Sensory Design & Learning Environments

Natasha Grays

Sensory-friendly interior designer. Spaces that support how children feel and learn.

Mandy Gurney
Sleep & Child Development

Mandy Gurney

Children’s sleep expert. 30 years helping sleep-deprived families.

Helen Zimprich
Parenting & Family Dynamics

Helen Zimprich

Parenting coach. Helping parents raise confident, self-directed children.

Alex (Ally) Boyes-Varley
Neurodivergence & Child Confidence

Alex (Ally) Boyes-Varley

Author, Connection Before Correction. Neurodivergence and child confidence.

Dr Elizabeth Joy Shaffer
Holistic Development & Occupational Therapy

Dr Elizabeth Joy Shaffer

Occupational therapist and educationalist. Whole-child development.

Candace Green
Conscious Parenting & Family Patterns

Candace Green

Conscious parenting coach. Energy healing and subconscious repatterning. Helping mums get to the root of the patterns playing out at home.

Our specialists support parent education. Individual services are offered only where stated.

The Prepared Parent workshop series

Join our live workshops.
Real strategies. Real specialists.

Our workshops connect practical teaching strategies with specialist insight into the factors that shape learning. Explore the current schedule for available sessions.

Expert-led learning

One topic. Clear guidance. Practical ways forward.

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Is this for you?

You don’t need to do everything.
You need the right next step.

  • Your child is at primary school, or learning at home
  • Something feels off and you can’t name it
  • Homework is a battle
  • You want evidence-informed guidance, not guesswork

Find your next step

Free parent profile.
Find your parenting animal and how you naturally teach and encourage.

Get your free profile →

Free Clarity Call.
30 minutes on your child and what to do next.

Book your free call →

GATE Training.
Four weeks, one to one. See where your child is stuck and learn to fix it.

Explore GATE →

Workshops.
Specialist-led sessions on specific learning and parenting problems.

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